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OK, I have a little time to update this page, so here goes.
On Thanksgiving of 1998, Mr Kevin Micheal Lamont called the police to report that I had been calling to harrass him on the phone. I was at relatives all day, and had to gather all my witnesses to tell the tale that I was no place near my home all day long, and that there was no way that if he called star 69 to report it came from my number that it could be true. I have 15 people that are willing to swear they were with me on the holidays. I went to my Brothers house for most of the day, and hung out mostly in the garage with my brother cause we can't smoke cigarettes in the house. We ate dinner, chatted in the living room with me, my mother, brother, sister in law, and the next door neighbor. After that I went straight to the Whalens house. At the Whalens house, there was me, Mrs Whalen, Daughter Rachel, and Husband John, Sister Ann, and boyfriend Rob, Brother Jerry, and neice Skyann, and a couple of other people that dropped in to say happy holidays. The police did nothing to stop him from false reporting.
2 weeks later. I was woke up about 9 P.M. by a phone call from Officer Stoner from the Kitsap County sheriffs dept. Apparently, Kevin once again reported that I had been calling him to harrass him. Officer Stoner said that Kevin reported that I have been calling him to get him to call me back, so I can get him into trouble.
2/6/99
I have been woke up by a phone call from my mother. Apparently, Kevins mother is just as distubed as he is. There is a child custody case going on, where Tracy is sueing for the custody of his daughter. She has had a restraining order on the guy for the same type of abuse he has put me through. Well, she knows I left her son, and has continued to call me. At first it didn't bother me much. It didn't bother me at first talking to her, I started to talk to her before I left her son, when she still had the restraining order on him. She told me about how he used to keep her hostage in her house, punch holes in walls, cut holes in the floors with knifes, etc etc to try to control her. He did the same exact things to her, as he has done with every female in his life. Doesn't seem to matter if it is a mother, or girlfriend. I am afraid of what he is going to do to his daughter. I have been in contact with the mother of Kevins child, because when I left him, I needed to hear about what he put Heather through. Both her and his mom confirmed the story on how he used to get drunk and abuse people. anyways, I am getting of the track of the story I am telling. I was woke up with a phone call from my mother. Kevins mom called her after trying to call me and intimidate me as a witness in this child custody case. You see, the photos I have of Kevin are ones of him getting drunk while he had visitations with his daughter. His mother is lying now about him, and making him out to look like a saint, to improve her chances of their family getting custody of the baby. (she has forgotten that her very own words against him in her restraining order will show she is covering up now) well, she has been calling me and I have not been answering the phone. (telling me who I can and can't talk to, and answer to her who I chat with. I have not had to account for my friends since I turned 18 and my mommy said it was OK) So, now she calls my mother. She starts yelling at my mom, and telling her that I am going around town saying that my mom used to run a child prostitution ring. (of course this came from her sick son). My mom was livid!! I called the sheriff and had them call her to say, don't call me or my mom any longer. I am no longer with her son, and have a restraining order on him, and I really don't want to talk to her either. I now have a report and case number on that. I get a phone call again on Sunday night, on 2/8 and it is Heather, (Kevins ex with the child) and he is telling her all these lies. He said again that I was calling him on Friday night trying to harass him, and that he can prove it. He called star 69 and it gave my number. First of all, I have caller ID block, so even if it was me, it would never give my number, and second of all, I was out of town staying with a friend. He then went on to tell her about how he called the cable company to harass me. (that is another story I will tell you all). I recently changed my phone number so that if he trys to report that it was me calling him, and hanging up, the police will soon figure out, that it is a disconnected number, and he is false reporting. When I was dating him, the phone would ring, and he would say it was his mom calling and hanging up on him, now that I have a restraining order its now me. He has told tales that I have broken into his house since I left him, to leave greeting cards, hmm, well I remember that same story about his mom last fall, are we seeing a pattern here people?? Now, I need to type in the Officers name etc, so that I don't lose this information, for future reference.
The Police Case # on his mom calling etc, was #99-2518 Officer Tim Young with the Kitsap County Sheriffs Office. Badge #128.
Well, he has pulled another fast one. When I left this man, I contacted his ex, as stated above to hear the tales of abuse this woman went through. Well, he found out I had talked to her, and threatened that he was going to get a restraining order against me, on his daughters behalf, claiming if he did, then I would not be able to talk to his ex. Well, he has followed through with his threat. I have a legal advocate with the YWCA "Debbie" and she knew his name the first time I mentioned it to her. It seems that he is very well known by the YWCA domestic violence program. He has had approx 5 domestic violence arrests, and 5 restraining orders against him, by various people for his violence. Well, my legal advocate was at the county clerks office, and recognized him right away. He was trying to get a restraining order on me. The clerks office told him, that there is nothing that they can do to keep me from talking to the custodial parent. Well, he filled out the forms, and went in to court, stood up in front of a judge, and had to tell some really big lie, cause the judge granted the temporary restraining order. My legal advocate said, she witnessed him write on the order after the judge signed it, and brought it to the clerks office again, to file and get the paper work in motion. When the clerk looked at it, they said, "something is not right, the judge would never agree to this" and they brought the paper work back into the judge for verification. well, he called his ex, and said that he "did it" and that I would be served that night. That was Thursday, Febuary 11, 1999. I have stayed home not leaving the house, parking my car right out front so the sheriff would not have a problem finding me to serve me (I really want to see these papers, and his lies, so I can defend myself). This is Sunday November 14, and the sheriff still has not even tried to serve me. They always make an attempt within 24 hours, of such papers being filed. Something smells fishy in Denmark, and I don't know what he is up to. I have a feeling he put down a friends addy, instead of my addy, so they could accept the order instead of me, so I wouldn't know about the up comming court date, to defend myself, and he could get a permanent order against me. I will have to call the sheriff on Tuesday (monday is holiday) and find out why I have not been served. I have contacted all of my neighbors I have known since 1975, in case he tried to say I was inappropriate with his daughter, and the neighbors can all testify how I have watched their children (most of them grown now) and never put them at any type of danger. He also is the type to do this so that in case I want to adopt children in the future, there would be this horrible stuff on my record to ruin my chances of ever adopting, just to hurt me. ( I had surgery, can't have kids now). I did babysit his daughter, but the mother called me, and asked me to. I never have been the one to ask to have the baby. The mother only did this because of an emergency, and how Kevin used to go on and on about how good I was with his daughter (of course he said this before I left him). So, I have to have all of these people write affidavits on behalf, and inconveinence more people. His ex is writing one, to right this wrong he is trying to envoke on me. He also admitted that he is the one that had my cable messed with, and she is going to add that to her testimonial. You see, about a month ago, channel 23 went out on my cable. I called the cable company and asked them to come and fix it. They said it was out because I had a trap on my line, because they got a phone call, stating I was stealing all of the premium channels. So, on came the trap. I told them go ahead and block all the premium channels, I dont care, just want what I am paying for and that is all. Well, through them testing my lines, and investigating it, they found this to be a lie, and that it was just his further harrassment. I am obtaining the work order for this, and with the other evidence, I will be able to show his harrassment, and the restraining order on his daughters behalf is further harrassment, and pray the law finally stops him. He already has a history of breaking restraining orders, and now with the testimonial of his ex that he admitted this too I hope to put this all behind me. While I was with him, he accused his mom of being on drugs (addicted to pain killers) and that is why she had the restraining order on him. He used to drive past her house and show me where she lived all the time, and was breaking the order then. He has sinced accused me of being on drugs "speed" and if that were true, how come I gained 20 pounds in 6 months, from stress eating?? Now I have the opposite problem, I am throwing up and everything is going right through me, cause the stress has gotten out of control. If I sleep more that 3 hours at a time now, it is a good night. The stress and anxiety, keeps me awake at night, in fear of what he will do to me next. He just recently told someone that I use to keep "gay porn" at his house. First of all, if I was into women, why was I with him? If I am into gay men, then is he implying that I thought he was gay? He gets this story based on my hairdresser is gay, and cut Kevins hair once for free. I only had to make dinner for James as payment. So now that I had James over 1 time, I am gay too. He Also is homophobic, and tells storys that his brother is gay cause his mom had some male baysitter that used to babysit them, and molested them, and this is why his brother is gay. Now, his story about molestation, if you heard the whole thing, almost goes hand in hand with the story he tried telling about my mom putting me into prostitution. He has a pattern of making up a story, and depending who he is upset with, he just changes the names, and a few minor details, and viola. I can almost predict the next storys he will tell about me, since I remember the ones he told about everyone else. Well, I will write more, after I talk to the sheriff on Tuesday, and find out why I was not served. (I am hoping they threw it out, cause he got busted trying to alter court documents, and they saw his history when they went to enter it in the computer).
Feb,15, 1999
I just found a letter that the prosecuting attorney sent me regarding the time that he called me 23 times in one night at about 3 in the morning and woke me up. He was drunk, and it was before I was able to get my things. Up till this point, he would not allow me to obtain my belongings, and all of a sudden he decides that I can have them, that night, at that moment. He said, you have 10 minutes to come and get your things or I am putting them out into the parking lot. It was pouring rain that night, and he knew that I couldn't get them at that moment, it was just another one of his charming ways to torture me. He also said, I had better get over there if I wanted to work things out. I ended up calling the sheriff, he called many times that night, and then at times would leave the phone on the counter top, so I could hear him breaking up my belongings. well, here is the letter.
January 4, 1999 Re: Kevin M. Lamont 98CR 120682 08
I am writing to inform you that our office will not be filing charges against Kevin M Lamont. This decision was made after reviewing the investigation submitted by the Kitsap County Sheriff's Office, in which you were listed as a victim.
Under the law, we cannot file charges just because WE believe that a person committed a crime. Rather, we must be able to prove the case to a jury beyond a reasonable doubt. This is an extrememly difficult standard to meet. After reviewing this case, I have concluded that the State could not meet that burden of proof. Our decision does not, however, prevent you from contacting an attorney to seek a civil rememdy. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. Sincerely, Russell D. Hauge Prosecuting Attorney. Now, this is what makes me upset. He has a long history, and he was on my caller ID 23 times, and they say that they didn't have enough proof of harrassment against him. I guess he had to call about 30 more times? Also, he is a bully and a coward, when the cops came to his house to talk to him, he didn't answer the door, so they couldn't talk to him. He knows if he doesn't answer, there is nothing they can do. The can only break down a door unless it is an extreme emergency. So, I only have the cable company order and the affidafit so far of that in hopes to make him stop. I also hope to prove the restraining order as just harrassment too. Well, off to call me legal advocate, see what she found out.
2/27/99 We had court, and I won !!! He blew up in the court room and showed his true colors. The judge kicked him out of the court room!! here is what a gave the judge as evidence. This is the following outline I gave her to go with the evidence so when she looked through it all, she knew why she was looking at it. I handed my stuff in the day before court, so the judge would have plenty of time to look at everything in chambers before the hearing.
In mid October 1998, I started to build my safety plan to leave Mr. Lamont. On or about
10/18 I contacted Mrs Lamont, because she had a restraining order on her son, and I need
to know how he would react to my leaving him. I was in fear for my safety. Mrs Lamont
told me about the long term abuse her son had inflicted on her, and her story was almost
identical to my story of abuse. (see court history)
She then contacted Pastor Stan Morris, and set up a meeting with him and invited me to
attend. She felt this was important, as I saw to his drinking problem and abuse like she
did. He had admittedly been to rehab 2 years prior, and is not supposed to drink. I had
started to attend that church, after being invited to attend by Shelly Akey, and also knew
this was a safe place, since Mr. Lamont had stated that he would not attend that church
ever again, since Pastor Stan was a fake, and only took money for vacations to the
Bahamas, etc. (if the court wants me to elaborate, I will). At no time had Mr. Lamonts
name ever been mentioned to the pastor by me, as per his allegations, till his mother set
up the meeting and invited me to attend. My mother drove me there, and was a witness
to this meeting, as my car wasn't working due to the fact that Mr. Lamont had taken my
car just prior to this, and it never worked the same again. (this is where Mr. Lamont
claims I lied to his mom and Pastor)
On 10/24 I got Mr. Lamont to stop drinking for a total of 1 week, untill 10/31 he justified
it because it was a holiday. He got intoxicated once again, and never stopped up untill
the time I left him, and it got worse than I had dealt with before. I continued to be
frightened not for just my safety, but his daughters as well (note pictures)
On November 19, 1998 Mr. Lamont demanded I turn over my car to him. He notified me
that he was going to pick up his daughter, because he didn't have to work the next day,
and it was his weekend to have visitations with her. I told him no, that he had been
drinking, he had a suspended license, it was stormy out, my car wasn't working properly,
and worst of all, if he were to get into a wreck, my insurance would not cover him, and I
would be liable for damages. He rummaged my purse, took my car keys, and when he
dropped them, I ran out to my car attempted to leave. He reached in my car, pulled the
keys from the ignition bending them from the force. When he did this, I attempted to
grab them from his hands, to get away. He gained control of my keys and threw them up
on the roof of his apt. complex. (this is where Mr. Lamont claims I assaulted him, note
bent car key)
He then hid the telephone, so I couldn't call for help, blocked the door so I couldn't leave,
and told me, that if I called the police, he would say a assaulted him when I tried to get
my keys. He then Climbed on the roof, from his back porch, and got my keys, and took
my car against my will or permission. The only reason I didn't call the police was, I was
intimidated and scared of and by him. I was also afraid of the consequences that
followed.
When he returned a couple of hours later, I began to pack up my belongings to leave. He
managed to keep me there till approx. 1 A.M. yelling and screaming at me. When I
finally left, I knew that I had to leave him for good. He had already punched holes in the
bedroom walls, and I knew I would be next. When I arrived home, I didn't know who-or
where to turn and at that moment decided to contact Heather Isam. I needed to know
how to escape his clutches. She then began to help me with a safety plan, as she had
experienced verbatim the same abuse. (this is where he claims I lied to Heather, see
affidavit).
On 11/20 I left a letter on his door letting him know it was over. I had to do it in a letter
since, I knew if I told him in person that it would only perpetuate violence on his part.
(see letter & items, this is where he says I taped notes to his door).
Later on 11/20 I contacted him in the early evening, to ask if I could arrange to obtain my
belongings, the following weekend. Since I had the "Holiday Extravaganza" at the high
school that weekend of 11/21 and 11/22. He said that would be fine. Later that evening I
was called in the Early morning on (11/22) to a raving drunken Kevin. He told me I had
better get over there if I wanted to work things out. I told him under no uncertain terms
was I going over there. he then said if I didn't come in 15 minutes, he was throwing my
stuff out in the rain. He called me 22 times that night tormenting me (see letter from
prosecuting attorney # case #)
On 11/23 I obtained a restraining order.
11/25 Mr. Lamont showed up at my house yelling and screaming, and that he decided
that at that time (7 A.M.) I could get my belongings. He was angry that I had called the
police on 11/21 and claiming that he couldn't get his daughter for the holidays, and it was
my fault. I later found it was not in the parenting plan to have her for Thanksgiving, and
he had her the following next couple days. I called 911, and told the police he was at my
house, and that he was on his way back home. He was served on 11/25 and at the same
time I had civil standby, as I arranged to meet the police there at the time they served him
to do it all in one smooth action. This is when Mr. Lamont claims I harassed him by
phone, (see affidavit from David Einhaus)
On 11/26 Mr. Lamont made false reports that I had been calling him all day long
harassing him, and was with relatives (11 people to be exact) all day and made no
personal calls from their homes. (see affidavits, and statements)
I have only contacted Mr. Lamont 2 times since I left him by phone. The first time to
arrange to obtain my possessions, and the 2nd by "Freudian slip" which was a total
accident.
About a week after this I was woke up by officer Stoner, from the KCSD, seemingly Mr.
Lamont had been claiming I was harassing him by phone again.
When I was dating Mr. Lamont, he used to claim that his mother was calling him all last
summer hanging up on him while she had a restraining order on him, and has made
allegations that she was breaking into his home. Now he is claiming it is me.
As per Mr. Lamonts allegations of me entering his home and leaving a card, that is a total
lie. The card he is stating that I left, is in fact a card I gave Mr. Lamont sometime in July
or August. This card was given to him after a wall fell on him, and some co-workers.
Mr. Lamont called me on the phone stating "I would be dead had I not moved in time".
At the same time I gave him this card, I brought Daisies from my yard, and an ace
bandage for his hurt foot that the wall fell on.
This restraining order is just another attempt to harass me. I have never had problems in
the past with ex-boyfriends. When it was over, it was over. (see affidavit (s))
If anyone continued to harass anyone, it has been Mr. Lamont (see cable work order,
Heathers letter, and there is a case #)
If Mr. Lamont obtains this order, I fear that he will use it to continue to feel empowered
to make more false reports against me. I have tried to move on in my life without the
Lamonts. I have even had the police contact Mrs. Lamont, in order to ask her to stop
contacting me. (see report) I have also changed my telephone # to stop such contact, and
also to stop false reports that any phone calls come from 895-9205.
In Closing, I was not served untill 5 days after Mr. Lamont petitioned for this order. The
sheriff that served me stated they did not receive a copy of the order untill monday Feb
15, 1999. This has only given me 5 business days to prepare defense, to gather evidence
and meet the burden of proof that I am an innocent party here.
Had Mr. Lamont given the order to the authorities in a timely manner, so that I be served,
I would have unquestionable evidence to further substantiate my innocence, such as case
files, from the prosecutors office & other counties establishing Mr. Lamonts history of
Domestic Violence and Harassment. etc. etc.
and here is the "Dear Kevin" letter I gave him when I broke up with him, and the judge read the whole thing. He said he dumped me, and I had the note to prove I dumped him.
Dear Kevin,
I am sitting here trying to find the words, and am in fear that as I type them, you
will not read them as I mean them. I guess by now you know that they craziness of the
course of events, has left me with no option but to not call you. I really wish in my heart
of hearts that it didn't have to be this way, but I was left with no option. During the
course of the last six months, too many painful things have been said and done. I really
want nothing but the best for you, but I can't alone be there to help you find your way if
you don't want it. I only know, that no matter what, I have to do what is right for me to
try to improve my life and keep it rich with joy and positive things. I know that you
have alot of anger in your heart right now, and that you will probably see some "hidden"
message here. but it is not true. I only want to make my life a better one, and that is one
without alcohol, and pain. I cannot be with you during these times of crises, because I
have to find the strength to keep my life right, with me, for me, and make it right, and
hope that you will find the strength to do the same. I can no longer put up with the
stress of the life that I have been living. I want to make things right for myself, and
make my life right with God as well. I know that you are thinking, "why is she turning to
God?" "She is far from a saint". well Kevin, the truth is, you don't have to be perfect to
go to church, going to church will help you find your way. If we keep making excuses,
we will never get better and stronger as people and have the kind of life we deserve. I
know you might wonder if there is a hidden agenda with me going to Family Worship
Center, the truth is, when Shellly invited me to come, I walked in and felt at home there. I
never really felt that at St. Gabriel, because it is so large, I got lost in the shuffle. That is
the honest truth.
I also am really at bat for you. You may not agree with my tactics, but you must know
that with every inch of my heart and soul, my motives are sincere. I may not approach
things in a manner that you agree with, but it is the only way I know how to try to help
myself, and of course, reach out in any way I can to try to help you.
I really want you to take a step back, and look at all the craziness that has occurred in
your life, both past and present. Do you really believe that everyone else has caused you
all this pain. Alot of our pain is decided upon our choices. It has nothing to do with,
people turning their back on you. Sometimes, when you love someone the most, you have to
get the toughest, to help them see the light. Instead of comparing how pure someone else is
to be a deciding factor in your life of, "well they do this", and that gives you permission
to act out by hurting them with name calling and anger. Why don't you think about the
fact it is maybe they all love you, and they just aren't buying into the pity pot.
You asked me one time, that you needed to know no matter what I wouldn't leave you.
Well Kevin, me making the choice right now to not be around this craziness is not leaving
you. I haven't forsaken you. I just am walking towards the rest of my life, and my
hopes and prayers are with you. I want nothing more than you to get life back on track,
and I know you can. I know you will, because it is a choice that you have to make.
Kevin, I want you to know, Hitting bottom isn't the worst thing in the world, if you use it
as a tool to start looking up again. My hopes and prayers are with you, and I would
love to see you surround yourself with people that have been in your shoes, and are in a
better place now. I also would love to see you take Scooter up on going and getting
involved with the Band. You are really good at the guitar and you can really make a
difference for them, as much as they can for you. Please take a hard deep look at
yourself, and know that alot of people Love you, and aren't willing to give up on you. I
haven't!! I also believe, from looking at my own mother, she would have done the same
thing to me, if I had been drinking and got violent verbally with her. As you know, this
is easy for you to talk in ways that you could never imagine while you drink. So please
do yourself a favor, and admit that as long as you have anger in your heart, you can
never heal. The first step to get rid of the anger is forgiveness, so the healing can start.
Please let the people around you that are reaching out take your hand and help you.
You want to know what unconditional love is? It is not giving up on someone, but also
having the courage, knowledge, and strength to not buy into their pity party, so they can
start looking at the world with some truth. I know you know in your heart of hearts,
what is right from wrong, and I know that all the excuses in the world that we sometimes
make so we can feel better is nothing but a big lie, to ourselves. I know that I am far
from a saint, but I also know I need to love myself, and not forget I deserve the best in
life. I know that I need to improve myself, and I have the courage to step up to the
plate to make it better. I really would love to see you do the same too. Sometimes it is
scary to go against what you know, even if it is a better thing, because when we stay even
in that painful place of drugs, and alcohol, at least it is familiar and we know what we
are going to have to deal with. Well, sometimes we need to take risks, and put a little trust
in God, and our communities to band together to make us a stronger person to conquer our
fears and our ways. Kevin, I really do wish the best for you in life, and any way that I
have ever reached out in your name, is not to turn against you, but to better understand
you, and try to do what is right by you. I am not going to buy into the bull and lies that
the life of chaos has caused confusion in the heart. You know what is right and I know
what is right deep down inside, and no matter what we do to try to justify going on in a
crazy manner is nothing but a lie. I will be looking forward to the day I meet the real
Kevin, the one that has been hiding behind all the fear and pain. The Kevin that I know
now is not you. The Kevin I know now, is a Kevin that has caused me great fear, and
great pain, and has made me act out in ways that I am not proud out of desperation, and
confusion. I can't be the best I can be with you or to you till you see the truth, instead of
the lies that the alcohol, and marijuana has caused you to believe. My heart and prayers
are really with you, and everyday I will wake up hoping you are stronger. You must
realize thou, I can't be the person that you want me to be, till things change. I also, am
not the only person in error as you see it. I want you to take a hard deep look at
yourself, and ask yourself, why have people reacted the way they have??? What causes
people to act to do the things I hate the most??? Kevin, it is usually a reaction to the deep
pain, that the drinking and very abusive controlling things it has made you do. When I
am mad at you, and refer to "Kevin", I am usually referring to the things that your
illness has made you do. I really do Love you, but I can't be living the life I have been
living with you. I want you to think about the double standards that has gone on. I hear
two sets of rules all the time, and never know which to follow, in consequence, it has made
me a little crazy, and I have fought too hard, to ever let that become my life again. I
slipped, and fell off the path I have been living for a long time. I was really living a
good life, and during the time I moved from the Tracy house, I met you while the stress
of my father dying, and alot of other things were happening, and I let it get the best of
me. Well, I am ready to get my life back on track, are you?? I hope so, because if you
aren't ready, I will really miss you.
My hopes and prayers are eternally with you,
Love Charity
well, I will add more later, and will copy all the affidavits later etc, but really busy right now getting my house back in order from no doing a thing to it, cause I have had to go around fighting this last court battle, but it paid off, Motion Denied.!!!!
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